You can fail, financially, with your dreams and still be a success.
I know we all know this.
And I know we ALSO can feel like… but if a thing is REALLY GOOD it will find its audience, it will find commercial success.
Our culture tells us that the people who have really big financial success are actually more gifted than those who don’t have it.
It’s called meritocracy. It’s a way of justifying the huge gaps between the ultra rich and everyone else. It’s a way of keeping us obedient to capitalist values.
The truth is, we’re all gifted. We’re all unique. And one person having more commercial success than another person does not make them more gifted. It makes them more celebrated by capitalism.
And people use that “celebrated by capitalism” as evidence of being exceptionally gifted.
It happens ALL THE TIME in the life coaching and wellness industries. You think the people who are the most famous and make the most money are the best healers.
They’re not.
And that’s a fucked up measurement system. Especially when you’ve been in this business long enough to know what happens behind the scenes of those businesses that make all that money.
We need to find all the places, in us, where we allow money to determine worth, and clear them.
We need to root more deeply into our own values, and not the capitalist values that the world wants us to live by.
And the next time you see someone telling you their huge income as a way of saying that their work and ideas are more valuable than everyone else’s, you need to think about not listening to them. We don’t have to keep holding this system up.
And when you stop believing that “because so and so makes money money it means they are better” then you can stop believe that you are not good enough.
How celebrated by capitalism your work is is NOT an accurate measurement of how valuable and needed your work is.
Capitalism allows millions of people to starve while a few use billions of dollars to blast themselves off into space. It’s a fucked up system. I know we all need money, but is being celebrated by this fucked up system really a good goal to aim for?
This post is inspired by the inner work I’ve been doing for the last year - starting with the Slow the fuck down! BE as powerful, creative + magnetic as you are class. And then using the Un-Sticking Station process on ALL of the different thoughts and feelings that were unearthed in that class. It’s been a long journey but I love how clear I feel right now, that I have unearthed big chunks of these things from my inner world.
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