There is no way to do it wrong.
A theme that keeps coming up for me is: I AM NOT DOING IT WRONG.
I have this pattern that wants to find fault with what I have done. Or this feeling I am just wrong. Like I don't know what I am doing and somehow everyone else does.
This is a little monster voice that needs tending to in the Un-Sticking Station.
And it's a deep rooted kind of thing that needs regular attention. Like, sometimes we want to say "Oh, I worked on that already. I healed that." but that's not how it works, and our unwillingness to look at what's actually going on inside us can create space for the thing to grow quite a bit before we notice it's a problem that needs tending to.
Healing and growth are non-linear.
Whatever you think "non-linear" to mean - imagine it is LESS linear.
Like a lot of people use the example of a spiral - but a spiral is still a line. Yes it's not a STRAIGHT line because it curves, but it still moves in a predictable, linear fashion.
Healing is more like fireworks. You really don't know where the next thing will happen.
So if your process looks like a mess: good news! You're not doing it wrong.
There is no way to do it wrong and there is no way to do it right.
There is only "engaging" or "not engaging"
Keep engaging, with both your dreams and your healing.
When you are engaging, things keep happening and as long as things are happening there is possibility.
ENGAGING is a way of making space for the magic to find you.
Some tools that can help: The Creative Dream Incubator Oracle (this gives you a random page, so ask for the thing that is right for you, right now), Journaling Kits can be a simple way to keep engaging, come to the coaching calls or watch the replays, or if you want something that is more specific to where you're at - send me an email and I'll help you find something.
Creative Dream Incubator Coaching Membership members:
Come to the forum to share your thoughts or start a conversation about whatever you're working with.
Get your next Dream Book lesson or get a weekly journaling + alchemy kit.
Go the Library of Creative Dream Alchemy to find a practice that fits for where you are or use the Dream Lab if you're not sure where to start.
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